a draft in progress
Something to keep in mind here is that I am not opposed to marriage, but I do have observations and in some areas play Devil’s Advocate. (Sometimes I cannot tell if I really believe it while I am writing or if I am following a theoretical position)
I talked about starting this page, so here is a beginning. It is a sub-page of Leykis 101.
Marriage, why? Yes there are many generalizations in this position.
Marriage is an institution mostly for women and has it’s roots on our genetic core. (If you expect me to go all PC and candy coat this, you best head to www.disney.com as this is not going to be the place for you.)
Men and women are very different in many ways for plenty of reasons. We have to go back a few million years to discuss where this all starts. We find humanity in it’s infancy need ways to grow. Man being a hunter, hunts food and women. Two of the male needs in a nutshell right?Â It is the man’s goal to sleep with every young, healthy, attractive female that he can find for two reasons. First, because it feels so damn good. Secondly, to have kids, presumably to take care of him when he is too old to hunt and chase women. Man has no need forÂ monogamy. When he sees a fine piece of ass that he likes he takes it.
Woman, is a nester. She needs security in which to raise young and to be safe from all the other men that just chase her down and fuck her. In order to make that security last a lifetime, she needs to develop a courtship ritual to slow the man down a little. Make him take his time and get to know her, and she needs to know him. She is making sure he is good breeding stock and has fine qualities for her young.