Welcome to the After Dark group

Since the After Dark group (while private) still shows the name that we use on FB I fear that many are not ready to open up and really discussing topics that could be worth while. To help with this, I would like to open my website up for these discussions…. Continue reading

Sextortion – are you aware of it?

As so many are flocking to cell phones and the ages of the users are getting younger, there is a topic that parents need to be aware of. Sextortion is a form of sexual exploitation that employs non-physical forms of coercion to extort sexual favors from the victim. Sextortion refers… Continue reading

Artificial Intelligence and Sex

A couple of times a day as part of my job, I flip through my Twitter feed looking for the emergence of cyber security threats. Sometimes, some of the entertainment/technology feeds bring some fun topics. It is expected that very soon, 2025 I think, we will be faced with a… Continue reading

Ashley Madison – really?

Since the media is saturated, why not add my two cents worth? As a cyber security professional I may view things a little differently. So we have a site (others as well) that caters to cheating. Is it  a shock? It shouldn’t be, there are sites for pretty much everything…. Continue reading

Can homosexuality be an adaptive behavior?

Before I start, this is not a debate on being gay as a choice or birth in general. This is a discussion on a specific scenario.   I was in the “outdoors research center” at the office with a friend was relaying a situation with a relative. The relative (let’s… Continue reading

Sexuality discussion from Facebook

This topic comes to us from the Facebook page: I think we all know that it is far tougher for a lady to achieve an orgasm. There are some obvious mechanics that need to be fulfilled to allow the ladies to acheive what we men can achieve with ease, sometimes… Continue reading

Truth in advertising

Yes I am a man… Over the last number of years I have been noticing a trend in the bra market to enhance and take away from my enjoyment. Ladies, you have what God gave you. A bra such as the Wonderbra may seem like a good idea, but remember… Continue reading

Major over-reaction. Alot of flap about 50 Shades of Grey

Sometimes the headlines yield some odd bits, but can dovetail into a better bigger discussion. How many in our group and around have read 50 Shades? I know Gigglez has. At the beginning it looked like a case of bad publicity was good publicity. It seemed as though the books… Continue reading


I was trying to keep the last few posts health related as we prepare for Food Revolution Day… Lets call this relationship, sexual, psychological, and emotional health related. For those of us that have been married or in serious relationships, we know that we need to keep things fresh. We… Continue reading

What sexual postion do you ENJOY the most?

This is not a poll asking what position you use most often, but what gives you the most pleasure or satisfaction. Maybe the two are different, let’s find out.